Instead of asking: "Why do bad things happen?" ask: "What is it about me that attracts suffering?"
Instead of asking: "Did I make the right choice?" ask: "Can fear ever make the right choice?"
Suffering doesn't prove you are something, it proves you'd rather be a 'someone' who is miserable rather than be a 'no-one' who is free and happy.
Suffering doesn't validate others are wrong. It proves you'll do anything, including self-destruction, to think you are right.
Suffering from suffering doesn't prove you want to end suffering, it proves you are afraid of ending it.
-Guy Finley, "Letting Go"
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